My name is Le, I’m 30 years old. My childhood was not really a good memory. I saw my dad beating my mom all the times, especially when he got drunk. My older sister got married and the guy was a macho guy as well, so she is also suffering a lot from her marriage. I looked at my mom and my sister as the samples for me not to trust in any relationship. I didn’t date to any guys until the last year. That’s when I met my boyfriend, a Germany guy. I signed up to Vietnamcupid simply because I would like to change my life, to be something better. I shouldn’t live alone forever and it is also because I think I deserve the best things in life after all these years. And I decided to try my luck with a white guy. After 3 months of virtual dating, Alex, my boyfriend, decided to go to visit me in Ho Chi Minh city. We met and fell in love even much more. We traveled around Vietnam for one month. Then he came back and we arranged a tourist visa for me to go to visit him in German. Finally I got the visa but that was when I told him my big secret which shocking him a lot. I have so many sickness in me. I have Hepatitis B and serious heart disease. He was worried so much that he could be infected from me for Hepatitis B from the beginning and really upset the fact that I kept the secret from him. I was cried in tears, thinking that it is, that’s how much he loved me. But then he proved me how he accepted me and all me sickness. He told me not to worry about it but also keep researching on the internet about my heart disease, how can I take operation etc…He encouraged me to redo all the test and we can work out together. Before that, I’ve been advised from the doctor to take a heart surgery because it is kind of serious. But I decided not to do it and went on with my life. That was one of the reason I kept the secret from him. Alex in the other hand, is always keeping healthy life, he doesn’t smoke, drink and that’s why I felt I gave him so much troubles. He isn’t a rich guy but he wants a simple happy life, and I am in the opposite, always neglecting about my health and just looking for short things. But now, he changed me a lot. He changed me to be someone better. I want to have a family with him, I am thinking about the future, kids. Try to keep us healthy and live a better life. I think I found the love of my life and I am thankful him for everything he does for me.
I would like to share my love story for everyone here and also a thank you note to Alex, my lovely Western guy.
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